SC 11 - Alignment is the New Sexy - Jayson Gaddis
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 19 August 2015
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
People don’t trust you when you are misaligned. You say you’re “fine” but really you feel angry. Or you say “I love you” but your body language is saying something different. This causes people to pull back from you.
The more congruent someone is the more trustworthy they are.
We get really pissed when our partner is out of alignment. In fact, we even resent them over time. But that is often a reflection of our own misalignment.
In This episode you will learn:
- Dealing with the ‘I’m Fine’ moment – Unlearning incongruency [1:33]
- Alignment in your marriage and work [6:00]
- Being ‘on the path’ to alignment [9:10]
- Tool: Sharing the Impact of non-alignment [10:07]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey what's up, Jason Gatis. Welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast. |
| 0:08.0 | Yes, this podcast is about having kick-ass relationships via any means possible, including plant medicine, therapy, coaching, reading, writing, and fighting, |
| 0:29.4 | and whatever will take us to the next level in our relationship life. |
| 0:36.0 | This podcast is also about busting the fantasy |
| 0:39.8 | around marriage, long-term partnership, and love, |
| 0:44.8 | because a lot of you are caught up in fantasies |
| 0:48.2 | around relationship, that when I finally meet the one, |
| 0:50.9 | everything will be great. Yeah, for a little while, until the dopamine |
| 0:55.1 | wears off and then you're going to get your ass kicked and handed to you by someone |
| 1:00.2 | amazing. And it doesn't matter what they present it's trying to help you be who you are. |
| 1:07.4 | So this podcast is designed to help you grow. |
| 1:11.5 | It's for growth development oriented people. If you're not into growth and development, |
| 1:16.2 | this is going to be hard stuff to swallow. If you just want to be comfortable, find another podcast. |
| 1:22.3 | So today I want to talk to you about alignment and |
| 1:26.8 | alignment is the new sexy. What the hell does that mean? |
| 1:33.0 | Well, have you ever been with someone and they said, |
| 1:39.0 | you asked them, hey, how are you? |
| 1:41.0 | And they said, I'm fine. but you're sensitive and you can tell they're not |
| 1:45.6 | fine. They're, they like maybe look a little irritable or angry or shut down or they're |
| 1:51.7 | on the verge of tears or something and they say I'm fine. |
| 1:55.0 | And what happens to you in that moment? |
| 1:58.0 | What do you notice in yourself? |
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