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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 886

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2023

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

A masochistic woman is happily paired with her sadist. They both love it when he bites her. But lately, she’s become more sensitive, maybe because she stopped taking hormonal birth control. In the past few sessions, she had to use her safe word and he’s beginning to sulk. How can they get back to the rough love bites they both crave? 33 eggs: That’s how many of a woman’s eggs are sitting in a test tube somewhere, awaiting fertilization. She is in her mid 30s, and is about to marry her 42 year-old boyfriend. Neither of them particularly want kids, but they might someday. How can she tell if she’ll ever want children?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with French philosopher and author Manon Garcia about her new book “The Joy of Consent: A Philosophy of Sex.”  A gay man in his 40s isn’t very close to his 18 year-old nephew. But now that the boy has come out, the caller wonders if he should reach out with some avuncular advice about PrEP, monkeypox and other adult subject he’ll need to know as a gay man.  Q@Savage.Love          206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage.  This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by the Meridian Trimmer, the very best tool to trim your body hair. Go to MeridianGrooming.com and use the code SAVAGE for an exclusive 15% off.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

0:04.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.3

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. Hundreds of scientists on the Savage Lovecast.

0:22.9

Hundreds of scientists and tech industry leaders issued a warning back in May about the dangers of artificial intelligence.

0:30.5

The statement was short and to the point, mitigating the risk of extinction from AI should be a global priority alongside other societal scale risks,

0:40.4

such as pandemics and nuclear war. Tristan Harris, co-founder and executive director of the Center

0:46.8

for Humane Technology in one of the signatories on that letter, he was on HBO's Real Time

0:51.8

with Bill Maher on Friday. And in addition to highlighting the threat of AI spreading disinformation or accelerating the

0:59.5

spread of disinformation and putting our democracies and societies at risk and the threat

1:04.4

of AI putting people out of work and maybe the threat of AI getting its hands one day

1:09.0

on nuclear codes.

1:12.2

Harris is very worried about AI doing science.

1:16.3

Then there's AIs that can recursively self-improve or do science

1:19.7

or start generating new scientific hypotheses,

1:22.7

and then testing those hypotheses.

1:24.0

There are already examples of people who are hooking up GPT4,

1:27.3

the current AI,

1:28.5

to chemistry labs and saying, could we automate chemistry? This is really, really dangerous.

1:34.1

So we don't want AI doing chemistry, as that could lead to some sort of extinction level event

1:40.8

in the long term. And when we're talking about AI, the long term is five years out.

1:45.6

But what can AI do for you in the short term? It might get you laid. Not laid. Actually, not

1:51.7

laid. We have the technology for getting you laid already. We got dating apps and hookup apps.

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