Savage Lovecast Episode 885

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 10 October 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

A man’s dad is deeply, absurdly closeted. He has been married to the caller’s mother for decades, but could never admit the truth. Now the caller’s mom has dementia and angrily brings it up to shame her husband in front of her sons. Should the caller tell his dad that he knows he’s gay? Should he tell his mother to stop being so cruel? Hear the agonizing tale of the woman whose boyfriend of 3 months ghosted her without explanation. Spooky. Our Magnum guest this week is Bryan Safi from the “Attitudes” and “Groceries” podcast. Is there anyone more quick witted than Bryan Safi? No, there is not. He and Dan talk about dick slapping (normal!) a worrisome humorlessness amongst young gay men, and whether being a dom makes you a misogynist, white supremacist. (Spoiler: It doesn’t.) Look! Look at Bryan! https://www.instagram.com/bryansafi/ And, a woman got all gussied up for her Hinge date at a nice restaurant. At the last minute he asked if she would like to just come over to his place instead. Is this poor behavior common? Acceptable? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get 20% off ALL mattress orders and 2 free pillows at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE, and use the offer code Savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:04.8	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.2	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:22.6	Hey everybody.
0:23.6	This week's intro is going to be short and sweet.
0:25.7	It is my birthday this weekend.
0:27.7	And I am headed out of town.
0:29.5	I'm headed up a mountain, actually, where I'm planning to contemplate my own mortality.
0:33.7	And yours, too, of course, because I'm always thinking about you guys.
0:36.7	But before I head for the hills, did you ever read something and feel too, of course, because I'm always thinking about you guys. But before I head for the hills, did you ever read something and feel so seen?
0:43.5	Trash Jones, full-time music producer, part-time idiot.
0:46.4	That's what it says in her bio.
0:47.8	Recently posted something to social media, well, to a social media site,
0:51.5	I will not name that kicked off a million think pieces.
0:56.6	Tired of the age gap discourse, Jones wrote, now let's do vibes gap discourse, where one person
1:03.1	in a couple lights up a room and the other is basically a sim.
1:08.5	I gasped.
1:10.4	I am the sim.
1:12.3	I assume that's a reference to the video game,
1:14.2	The Sims,
1:14.9	where people who inhabit that virtual world
1:16.8	mill around, not saying much,
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