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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 833

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2022

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Ka-ching! A gay man suddenly found himself in a Fin Dom relationship when a guy dropped $100 in his account and started calling him “sir.” The caller wants to keep it going, but he also wants to make sure it’s ethical.  A student teacher is horrified to hear some of his kids call each other “faggot.” He tries to stop it and comes down hard on the bullies. How can he teach these kids not to use hate speech? On the Magnum, it’s a “What You Got?” all about squirting. Instead of focusing on the composition of female ejaculate, Swedish sexual health researcher Jessica Påfs looked into women’s reactions to squirting. Some felt like it was a feminist super-power, others felt annoyed and ashamed.  With all the hoopla around the new Jeffrey Dahmer TV show, a caller asks Dan to talk about the victim that he knew in the 80s. Dan does, and it will break your heart. Could we maybe give the true crime a rest?  Q@Savage.Love     206-302-2064 Today’s Lovecast is brought to you by MeUndies.com: High quality, super-comfortable, good looking undies. Get 15% off your first order when you go to MeUndies.com/Savage. This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter “Savage” for postage, a digital scale, and a 4 week trial.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

0:04.9

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,

0:08.6

or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.3

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. For those of you who weren't online this week or missed S&L this weekend, a guy, a try guy, who is also a wife guy, had an affair with a co-worker who is not a guy, and the discovery of this affair, which featured in a supporting role, Harry Stiles, a guy who

0:39.2

tried skirts and got accused of queer baiting, the discovery of this affair that the tri guy had led

0:44.8

the other three tri guys to kick the wife guy tri guy out of the tri guys, which the three

0:50.4

remaining tri guys discussed in a five and a half minute long very self-important very

0:55.8

self-serious video they posted to their wildly successful YouTube channel where they have nearly

1:00.8

eight million subscribers for those of you who don't know what a try guy is i will summarize

1:07.2

the try guys are four guys who used to work at BuzzFeed together who would try things

1:12.8

and post videos of them trying things to YouTube. They would try wearing thongs, eating bugs,

1:17.8

they tried labor pains, they tried it all. Eugene Lee Gang, Zach Cornfeld, Keith Harborsberger,

1:25.1

and Ned Fulmer got internet famous, left BuzzFeed, and built their own

1:29.2

little media empire, well, that's a little media empire, where they continued to try things.

1:35.3

And for those of you who don't know what a wife guy is, I'm going to let Wikipedia do the

1:38.6

summarizing here. A wife guy is a man whose fame is owed to the content he posts to social media about his wife.

1:46.9

Wikipedia goes on,

1:48.0

The New York Times compared wife guys to in cells who define themselves by their inability to find a partner in that a wife guy defines himself by having found one and expects to be congratulated for it.

2:00.1

Okay, the first thing I read about the try guys controversy

2:02.9

last week was on Vulture, New York Magazine's pop culture website, where I read this. In a five

2:09.7

and a half minute video titled, What Happened? The remaining guys, Yang, Cornfeld, and Harborsberger,

2:16.3

spoke about the timeline behind the departure of resident

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