Savage Lovecast Episode 832

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 4 October 2022

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

A woman and her boyfriend use condoms. But she really, really wants his come inside her. Can she save some up, wait until there’s no threat of pregnancy, and then use it as lube? How long must she wait? A woman has always had a hard time reaching orgasm, even before she got on mental health meds. Her girlfriend can come at the drop of a hat. The girlfriend is patient and supportive, but the caller is feeling resentful. Why can’t she come? It’s not fair! On the Magnum, a caller asked what the hell a “sex therapist” is. Dan brings on newly minted sex therapist Julia Simone Fogelson (LCSW, CST,) to explain her profession. Do sex therapists have sex with their clients? How hard can this job be? Can I become one? And, although a man and his boyfriend are having the time of their lives using a chastity cage, the caller’s butthole tightens up when he’s using it. How can he ease the situation? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE. This episode is brought to you by Doordash. Get breakfast, lunch, dinner and more delivered from your favorite restaurants right to your doorstep with one easy click. To get 25% off your first order of $15 or more, use promo code SAVAGE at checkout. Terms apply.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:05.0	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.4	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:22.9	In 1964, Lyndon B. Johnson was running against Barry Goldwater for president. Johnson,
0:29.7	LBJ was president at the time. He was JFK's vice president. He became president in 1963,
0:36.6	after JFK was assassinated by, I think, Oliver Stone.
0:41.3	Anyway, Goldwater was the GOP nominee. He was a senator from Arizona. And Arizona was just as right wing then as it is now.
0:50.5	More right wing, arguably back then. John Birchers then, forced birthers now, stop the commies then, stop the steel now.
0:58.0	But it was a long time ago before most of you were born. Hell, it was before I was born, mostly.
1:04.2	Most of the 1964 presidential campaign happened before I was born. I was four weeks old in November of 1964 when Johnson crushed
1:13.9	Goldwater in a fucking landslide. Goldwater was a conservative and a military hawk and he didn't
1:22.0	think we were dropping enough bombs on Vietnam in 1964. Here's an unfun fact. The United States was dropping plenty of bombs on Vietnam
1:31.0	in 1964. We would ultimately drop eight million tons of bombs on Vietnam before that war ended in
1:37.9	1973, twice as many bombs as were dropped during the entire Second World War by everybody, not just the U.S.,
1:46.7	by the United States, Japan, Germany, Italy, the UK, the Soviet Union.
1:52.0	But in 1964, Goldwater didn't think we were dropping enough bombs on Vietnam or the right
1:58.7	kind of bombs.
1:59.9	He wanted us to use nukes.
2:03.0	That was just one of the things wrong with Goldwater.
2:05.1	He thought LBJ should nuke Vietnam,
2:07.7	and he promised if elected to nuke Vietnam.
2:11.4	Hell, Goldwater wanted field commanders in Vietnam
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