Savage Lovecast Episode 1012

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 31 March 2026

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

On the Intro, a public service announcement regarding Log Cabin Republicans and MAGA gays: Don't Breed Em, Don't Feed 'Em. An Australian woman would like advice on pegging a military man. Our guest is NYT writer Christine Emba. Her book Rethinking Sex: A Provocation made a big splash, and added to a cultural conversation about feminism and female desire. She and Dan talk about "looks maxers," the emotional intelligence gap between men and women, and why Gen Z folks aren't dating. A bit of this great convo is on the Micro and the whole thing is on the Magnum. And, a woman reconnected with an old high school classmate that she had a crush on back in the day. It turns out she still does! But he's married. The question is, is he happily married? And are they open? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ⁠ForiaWellness.com/Savage⁠ This episode is sponsored by Sundays for Dogs- Dog food using the same ingredients and care you’d use to cook for yourself and your family. Go to ⁠sundaysfordogs.com/SAVAGE50⁠ and get 50% off your first order. Or, you can use code SAVAGE50 at checkout. This episode is brought to you by Carafem, an abortion and reproductive healthcare provider that offers both in person care in Atlanta, Chicago, Washington DC and telehealth options for abortion pills by mail in 21 states. Carafem’s team of licensed medical professionals provide personalized abortion care options focused on your needs, preferences, and values. Visit ⁠Carafem.org⁠ to learn more. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:05.1	If you're under 18, get out of here, young and.
0:08.7	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,
0:12.5	or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:18.2	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:27.1	Forgive me for this.
0:28.8	Nancy, please play the first audio clip I sent you.
0:32.0	Now, I think when, you know, I did very well with the gay vote, okay?
0:34.7	I even had, I even played the gay national anthem as my walk
0:38.9	off, okay? And I think it probably helped me, but I did great with no Republicans ever gotten
0:45.3	the gay vote like I did, and I'm very proud of it. I think it's great. That was Donald Trump,
0:51.5	president of the United States, doing what he does best, lying his
0:55.4	fucking face off. In this instance, earlier this week, he was lying about the gay vote,
1:01.6	claiming he won it. J.D. Vance engaged in a little pre-lying, a little wishful thinking about
1:07.7	the gay vote before the 2024 election. Vance said this on the Joe Rogan
1:12.7	experience. And I think that frankly, I wouldn't be surprised if me and Trump won just the normal
1:20.1	gay guy vote. Because again, they just wanted to be left the hell alone. And now you have all this
1:25.3	crazy stuff on top of it. Donald Trump and J.D.
1:27.5	Vance did not win the gay vote in 2024. Freaky gays, normie gays, normie looking gays who are
1:33.9	secretly freaky, nice gay couples with secret sex dungeons in their suburban homes.
1:38.5	And freaky looking gays who want marriage and monogamy and a suburban home without a sex
1:42.7	dungeon, they didn't. We didn't
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