After Action Report #23

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 3 April 2026

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Meet Ember, a trans man who, after going to a few sex parties, decided to host his own. It turns out that normie dinner party etiquette and sex party etiquette is the same: DO NOT SHOW UP ON TIME. What else happened at this party? Do you have a story to share of a leap into the sexual unknown? Write us at Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.

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0:51.3	action report at savage dot look after action report welcome to after action You're listening to After Action Report at Savage.com.
1:04.8	Welcome to After Action Report where one adventurous soul comes on the show to tell you and me all about a new sexual adventure.
1:33.8	Today I chat with Ember, a trans man with a big beard who threw his very first sex party. Amber, Ember, welcome to the show. Hi, thanks for having me. Before we get to the new thing you tried, the thing you wanted to talk with me about and share with my listeners, just tell us a little bit about you. Who is Amber? Where is Ember? And with the way things are in the world right now, I always feel like I should ask, how is Ember? How are you? Well, I'm a 32-year-old trans guy. I'm a bisexual man.
1:40.5	And how am I? Wow. I'm surviving the chaos by being a slut, basically.
1:47.7	Whatever makes your time in this world bearable and however you connect with people right now, I think it's so important that you enjoy it and do it fully and not be paralyzed,
1:53.1	not let them win. Yes, I feel like maintaining my queer joy through all of this is important.
1:59.5	So what is it that you tried? What did you want to tell us about?
2:02.1	So I hosted my first sex party.
2:05.3	Host, but you've attended others?
2:08.2	Yes, I have attended.
2:09.3	I'm still kind of newer to them in general the last few years I've been exploring.
2:14.8	But yeah, this is my first time hosting.
2:16.9	So tell us quickly before we get to your first time hosting is my first time hosting. So tell us quickly,
2:18.2	before we get to your first time hosting, your first time attending. What got you to a sex
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