Savage Love Episode 84

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2008

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

He thinks he's a 61-year-old sex machine; she just likes the money he pays her. Should she keep pretending to enjoy the oral sex her sugar daddy insists on giving her? • Clark Kent: Hear the charming but confusing tale of a couple who maintain both a real and online relationship with each other. • Two calls from people wondering about open relationships, one from a happily married man whose wife wants to branch out, and another from a woman who very much wants to be the OTHER woman. • A brother and sister are gay. Should they both come out at the same time? • And, Dan Savage gets support from the fatosphere. Do you have an itchy rash? An inexplicable lump? Does it hurt when you go like this? We're getting a doctor in the house, so ask your medical questions now. 206-302-2064.

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0:00.0	You're listening to a Stranger podcast, www.com.
0:05.7	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:16.1	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:24.6	Hey, everybody. This is Dan Savage.
0:26.0	Welcome to the Savage Love cast.
0:28.7	The once-a-week, outlawed version of my sex advice, call them Savage Love.
0:32.1	The way it works, people call us up, record questions.
0:35.4	I listen to them on the fly and record some answers and occasionally call people back. Got lots of questions. We're going to get right to him. Hi, Dan. My name is Liz, and I'm a 23-year-old girl. I have a sugar daddy who lives in another city, and every week he sends me money, and every now and then I go over there, take the bus and fuck him, fuck him, blow him, whatever. My problem is he totally doesn't turn me on. And of course not. He's 60. And he thinks he's hot stuff, likes Godami. That talks about how hot it is. It's gross. I would rather suck his dick and get on out of there. So should I just keep faking like it? Is there some tactful way to say, no, baby, I want to please you because I just want the money.
1:16.0	But he, I guess, thinks it's hot to do whatever to me.
1:20.4	So I just shut up and take it since I'm getting paid?
1:23.3	Or should I say something?
1:25.5	Some men like to eat pussy.
1:26.7	Some don't.
1:27.5	Some men eat pussy out of a feeling of obligation because assholes like me say that oral sex come standard in any model,
1:35.4	I guess including the sugar daddy model that doesn't include it, should be returned immediately to the lot.
1:39.2	He may be one of those men.
1:40.8	He may be doing this for you, feeling like even though he's paying you for your attention
1:45.3	and your sexual services, that, you know, needs to reciprocate orally since you orally service
1:52.0	him. There's no real tactful way, or there is a tactful way to check on this. You sound
1:58.6	like you're pretty articulate and upbeat and bubbly,
2:01.4	and you've deceived him long enough and well enough that he stays in this relationship and,
2:06.5	you know, he seems to think that you're enjoying it, even though you're clearly not the sexual
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