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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 730

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 October 2020

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

A woman is considering becoming a 24/7 slave for a man in a don't-ask-don't-tell relationship with his wife. But maybe he's just cheating on the wife? How can you be sure? Over a decade ago, a woman was in an abusive relationship. He went too far and they broke up. He has been apologizing ever since. Now that she has forgiven him, she wants to connect with him again. Should she? On the Magnum version of the show, Dan chats with disabilities activist Andrew Gurza about some very inappropriate PDA in a park by folks with cognitive delay. He also unveils his new line of sex toys by and for disabled people. And, is it an acceptable move to guide a woman's hand down to your dick when you are making out? 206-302-2064  voicemail@savagelovecast.com This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at This podcast is brought to you by . Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for postage, a digital scale, and a 4 week trial. This episode is brought toy by Tushy- the modern bidet attachment that washes your ass completely. Go to and get 10% off your order with promo code SAVAGE. Stop wiping and start washing with TUSHY.

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.5

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

while there's nothing you can't pass on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.4

This one's for Kelly.

0:25.8

He wrote to let me know that I'm going to lose them as a reader if I don't stop talking about politics.

0:31.7

You're a columnist, an advisor for mostly the gay community, Kelly wrote.

0:35.9

If you want to keep your straight conservative readers lay off politics.

0:40.7

Stick with what you know, and that is gay sex mostly.

0:44.1

First, at the very real risk of permanently losing Kelly,

0:47.9

fuck Donald Trump and fuck the Republican Party.

0:52.0

And while I know I have conservative readers,

0:53.6

because conservatives have been threatening

0:55.4

to stop reading my column for nearly three decades now, I'm not going to leave politics alone,

1:01.1

not until politicians learn to leave sex alone.

1:03.9

But so long as politicians are out there trying to regulate who we fuck, who we love, who

1:08.5

we marry, who we are, what we put in our bodies, what kind of sex

1:12.5

education we get, whether we can access birth control, whether we can get abortions.

1:16.9

Yeah, I'm not going to be able to lay off politics.

1:20.5

And for the record, Kelly, more than 80% of the letters that appear in Savage Love and

1:25.0

an overwhelming majority of the calls here on this podcast are from straight people and about straight sex. Kelly, darling, if something is about you

1:33.8

80 plus percent of the time and it feels like it's not about you at all, that says something

1:39.0

about you and it doesn't say anything good. All right, a personal note of thanks before we start this week's show.

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