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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 731

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 27 October 2020

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

A man and his much younger girlfriend decided to seek a unicorn through swinging apps. Her only rule was to set the age limit to women over 30. So, naturally, he went for women in their 20s. What's the problem?! A queer woman is into being choked. She knows it's unsafe. Is there any way to do breath play safely? On the Magnum, Dan chats with the Political Gabfest luminary Emily Bazelon about the conservative shift in the Supreme Court. Sexy! And, a woman's boyfriend was able to get her off using only his foot. What has your boyfriend done for you lately? ThredUP is the world’s largest online thrift store with over 35,000 brands at up to 90% off retail price. For a limited time, get up to 30% off your first order at . This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to and use the offer code Savage. The Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Dame Products: a woman-founded sex toy company. Visit to get $10 off your first order.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.4

There's so much.

0:25.9

There's too much.

0:27.3

There is just so much, much to talk about this week.

0:31.7

Tubin is now a verb, the narrow definition to masturbate during a Zoom meeting,

0:36.1

the broader definition to masturbate while at work.

0:39.9

And we have Jeffrey Tubin of the New Yorker and CNN to thank for this neologism.

0:44.2

During a meeting, a work meeting, an online work meeting, as I'm sure most of you have already heard,

0:49.3

Tubin pulled it out and started to have a wank while staring at his colleagues who were staring back at him.

0:56.5

Tuben thought he'd muted the video, but he hadn't.

0:59.9

And I can't imagine he didn't intend to turn it off and didn't think he'd succeeded.

1:04.5

I mean, unless this star political writer and cable news talking head didn't intentionally set his life on fire with a new book out

1:11.8

and an election less than two weeks away.

1:15.3

But who knows?

1:16.6

Maybe he did it on purpose.

1:17.7

Maybe he blew his life up on purpose.

1:19.7

We're all cracking under the stress, aren't we?

1:22.9

And for the record, while I'm being flipped, what Tubin did was not okay. It is not okay to pull your

1:30.5

dick out in front of your coworkers and doing something like that is a firing offense and it

1:36.1

should be a firing offense. But I also want to answer a question I saw getting tossed around

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