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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 676

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 8 October 2019

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

An open-minded but shy woman has a gaggle of friends who all talk about sticking their fingers in their boyfriends butts- to everyone's delight. But the caller isn't into it. Is she depriving her boyfriend of this singular pleasure? A woman got a tattoo and felt turned on by the experience. Her husband reaped the benefits of this lust later that night. But is it wrong to secretly perv on her tattoo artist? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Elle Chase, author of "Curvy Girl Sex" about LOVING YOUR BODY, damn it, and some other things too. Like having two very different sized boobs, and the message it sends when you have a dizzying array of sex toys hanging over your bed. This is a delightful conversation and therefore, you should listen to it. Also, a gay man is dating a masculine "thug" type who delivers in bed, but won't go out on a date in public. Hmmmm. 206-302-2064 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for postage, a digital scale, and a 4 week trial. Today’s Lovecast is brought to you by MeUndies.com: High quality, super-comfortable, good looking undies. Get 15% off your first order when you go to MeUndies.com/Savage. ThredUP is the world’s largest online thrift store with over 35,000 brands at up to 90% off retail price. For a limited time, get up to 30% off your first order at ThredUP.com/SAVAGE.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.4

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.1

well, there's nothing you can't pass on Savage Lovecast.

0:24.7

7-2.

0:25.9

If the winners of the popular vote, and in Al Gore's case, the actual winner of the

0:29.8

fucking election in 2000 had won the White House that there would be a 7-2 liberal

0:35.0

majority on the Supreme Court.

0:37.7

Instead, what we've got is a 5-4 conservative majority.

0:43.2

While again and again and again,

0:45.0

majorities of Americans have supported Democratic candidates and democratic policies,

0:49.2

again and again and again,

0:50.3

the anti-small D-democratic rat fuckery baked into our system has handed the White House

0:56.5

to the losing candidate, which is why conservatives have a five, four majority on the court.

1:03.2

Anyway, I bring up the Supreme Court on my sex and relationship advice show because right now,

1:07.5

today, this morning, the Supreme Court is hearing oral arguments in three

1:11.1

cases that touch on LGBT civil rights. Lower courts have decided that gay and trans Americans

1:16.2

are protected from workplace discrimination thanks to existing laws that ban discrimination on

1:21.4

the basis of sex. As Mark David Stern wrote in Slate, it is impossible to discriminate against

1:26.5

LGBTQ people without taking sex into account.

1:29.8

Consider an employer who fires a man for marrying a man but does not fire a woman for marrying a man.

1:35.1

This discrimination is inherently based on sex, change the male employee's sex, and he wouldn't be fired.

1:41.5

It's similarly impossible to discriminate against a trans person for being

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