Savage Love Episode 675

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 October 2019

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

An anonymous LinkedIn contact has asked a woman if she would be his FinDom. He would give her money every week in a form of submission to her. But he refuses to reveal his identity. Should she take him up on it? Would you? A gay man has an out-of-town friend who is straight, conservative and engaged to be married. But when the caller was checking out gay hook-up apps he discovered his friend there. Should the caller reach out to his closeted friend and let him know he knows? Try to stop the wedding? Offer support? Or pretend he never saw a thing? On the Magnum, did you know that bisexual women are huffin' and puffin' that delicious weed way more than straight women? Why would this be? In this "What You Got?" Dan brings on Dr. Morgan Philbin from Columbia University to discuss her research. (For access to this study, Email Dr. Philbin: mp3243@columbia.edu) And, a gay man has been checking out a guy at the gym. Is he gay? Or just working out? Are his smoldering looks being reciprocated? How can he get to the bottom of this sexy mystery? 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $65 off your first month, go to and use the offer code Savage. This episode is sponsored by Honey- the free browser extension that scans the web for coupon codes and discounts while you shop online. Get for FREE and save some money. Go to This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Boll and Branch: luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to and enter Savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.
0:06.5	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:16.1	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:24.6	I missed it.
0:26.1	Well, actually, I didn't miss it.
0:27.8	I knew about it.
0:28.6	I saw other people's tweets about it.
0:30.4	But I failed to tweet about it myself or write about it or talk about it on my show.
0:36.4	Last Monday, September 23rd, was Bisexual Visibility Day.
0:41.0	And I didn't mark the occasion. I failed to post and I see you your valid tweet. And this,
0:46.2	according to several people who took a time to monitor my Twitter feed all of last Monday and
0:50.3	then promptly send me an email at midnight, this is proof that I am bifobic. Never mind,
0:56.5	all the bisexual people I talk to on this show. Never mind all the people I've talked into identifying
1:01.6	as bisexual on this show. I mean, how many times have I talked with someone who didn't think they
1:06.4	could identify as bi because they're not equally attracted to both or all genders.
1:11.6	So many times.
1:14.2	Now, I haven't always been perfect on bisexual issues.
1:17.3	Lord knows.
1:18.2	Gay ones either, truth be told.
1:20.1	But bisexuals have always been visible around here, or audible around here.
1:25.0	Anyway, seen and heard.
1:26.8	But I didn't tweet. I didn't mark the occasion. But and heard. But I didn't tweet.
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