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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 588

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2018

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Gather round, and hear two nasty tales of violent, crazy girlfriends. Would you date someone who painted all over your sheets and poured liquor on your clothes? You would? Oh, never mind then. On the Magnum, Dan chats with Nicole Mazzeo, founder of Pleasure Pie and creator of  "The Art of the Solicited Dick Pic" a zine for the folks out there who love a naughty surprise on their phones.    And, a phone sex worker wonders how she can handle men who want to engage in emotionally scarring sex chatter. What a world. 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by . Get 50% off just about any item, plus free shipping when you enter the offer code "Savage" Today’s episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron- the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals for free (a $30 value) with free shipping by going to .

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.3

well, there's nothing you can't ask on savage lovecast.

0:23.6

The last week was fun. There was a real party in my mentions.

0:28.6

First up, I was one of the listed authors of a new study about gay couples and cuckolding.

0:32.9

A study published in an academic journal that wound up being covered by CNN.

0:37.4

The right wing blew a gasket about this study.

0:40.7

I have a theory.

0:41.6

Cuckolding makes conservatives uncomfortable because, as other studies have shown,

0:46.5

politically conservative types tend to be more interested and aroused by cockolding.

0:50.9

Which makes sense if you think about it for a second and, of course, thinking about

0:54.6

things even for a second, not something conservatives are very good at, makes sense because

0:59.1

conservatives tend to be more, quote unquote, conservative about marriage and worse at it,

1:05.1

as divorce and out of wedlock birth stats demonstrate.

1:08.2

They also tend to be more quote unquote conservative about racial issues.

1:14.1

Cough, cough, cough, more racist, cough. And kinks, what are kinks about? They're about transgression and

1:20.2

violating taboos. So yeah, violating the taboo against adultery is going to be hotter for conservatives

1:25.5

on average. And you basically have to regard

1:28.5

interracial sex as taboo before you can fetishize transgressing or violating that taboo.

1:35.7

Anyway, the study, the psychology of gay men's cuckolding fantasies, doesn't promote cuckolding,

1:40.6

gay or otherwise. It simply notes that the thing is happening, asks why the thing

1:45.0

is happening, and tries to determine if the thing that's happening is a positive thing or a negative

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