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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 565

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Society & Culture

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2017

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

What do you do when your best friend is dating a con man? A woman has been with her boyfriend for a year. He has a key to her apartment, and regularly lets himself in when she isn't there, even though she told him not to. How big of a problem do we have here? On the Magnum, Dan talks to Alexander Cheves who published a controversial article in The Advocate about what place, if any, women have in gay bars. And, a woman's best friend also happens to be her step-mother. (Same age though.) How can the caller counsel her pal on how to improve her sex life...with her father? 206-302-2064   Thanks to RXBAR for supporting Savage LoveCast. RXBAR is a whole food protein bar with no B.S. Get 25% off your first order at and use the promo code SAVAGE. Today’s Lovecast is brought to you by MeUndies.com: High quality, super-comfortable, good looking undies. Get 20% off your first order when you go to .   This episode is brought to you by . They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:25.0

What happened in Boston on Saturday was, it was beautiful.

0:31.3

Backing way up.

0:32.5

Remember those alt-right Nazi assholes and their white supremacist asshole pals who terrorized Charlottesville.

0:38.5

The assholes marching around with torches, carrying Nazi flags, and killing people, those assholes.

0:44.6

The men Donald Trump described as very fine people.

0:48.4

Well, the same assholes staged a march in Boston on Saturday, one week after Charlottesville.

0:53.7

Fewer than 100 neo-Nazi

0:55.7

white supremacist assholes showed up to assert their right under the First Amendment to say

1:00.3

hateful, racist, anti-Semitic things in public. And more than 20,000 counter-protesters

1:07.3

organized by Black Lives Matter and a coalition of other progressive orgs, they were

1:11.3

there to say, uh, no, this country does not belong to you. It belongs to all of us. And what makes

1:18.2

Boston even more remarkable and that turnout even more remarkable, all those people showed up

1:23.9

on Saturday in Boston, even though Tina Faye on Thursday told them to stay home.

1:31.2

I know a lot of us are feeling anxious and we're asking ourselves like, what can I do?

1:35.7

I'm just one person. What can I do? And so I would urge people this Saturday, instead of

1:40.9

participating in the screaming matches and potential violence, find a local

1:45.2

business you support, maybe a Jewish-run bakery or an African-American-run bakery.

1:53.3

Order a cake with the American flag on it, like this one, and just eat it, Colin.

2:03.5

Wait, I'm sorry, how is that

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