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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 562

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Society & Culture

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 August 2017

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

If your boyfriend wants you to help him to film women so he can scratch his voyeur itch, is there an ethical way to do this? Hear the sordid tale of the the woman who wants to call Child Protective Services on her own damn boyfriend. On the Magnum, Dan chats with writer and BDSM educator Mollena Williams about "sub space" -what it is, and what it isn't. Also, a woman is getting annoyed that her boyfriend keeps presenting her with highly scripted sex scenarios that probably originated from porn. How can she keep him happy but also fly off-script? 206-302-2064 Today’s episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron- the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to . Today's episode of the Lovecast is brought to you by Five Four Club- fashionable men's clothing curated and sent right to your door. Get 50% off your first package at when you use the offer code Savage.   This episode is brought to you by Blinkist: over 2,000 of the best-selling nonfiction books, transformed into powerful packs you can read or listen to in just 15 minutes. Go to  to start your free trial today.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.8

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.3

while there's nothing you can last ask on the Savage Podcast.

0:25.4

Here again are the three tweets from at Real Donald Trump.

0:31.6

After consultation with my generals and military experts, please be advised that the United States government will not accept or allow

0:37.8

dot dot dot transgender individuals to serve in any capacity in the U.S. military. Our military

0:44.9

must be focused on decisive and overwhelming victory and cannot be burdened with the tremendous

0:52.4

medical costs and disruption that transgender in the

0:56.3

military would entail. Thank you. That blew up the internet. That made the news. We're recording

1:02.5

the opening for today's show earlier than we usually do five days earlier. So the day after

1:07.0

Trump attacked transgender people serving in the military. And things are moving fast.

1:11.8

So today's opening may be out of date or even moot by Tuesday because this could go nowhere.

1:18.3

There's been a lot of pushback against Trump's proposed ban on trans people serving openly in the military and pushback from some unexpected quarters.

1:26.0

Senator John McCain condemned it, but also bat-shit-crazy,

1:29.8

right-wing, anti-queer lunatic senator Joni Ernst condemned Trump's proposed ban on transgender people

1:35.3

serving openly in the military. And to be clear, executing Trump's orders or tweet storm,

1:41.2

it would require the military to expel trans people who are already serving openly,

1:45.9

which they've been able to do for more than a year now, which Trump doesn't seem to be aware of.

1:53.0

And if trans people serving openly is disruptive and they're already serving openly,

1:57.5

where's the disruption? Where are the example? Where are the news stories?

2:02.5

They don't exist because trans people serving openly in the military, just like lesbian,

2:06.8

gay and by people serving openly in the military, which they've been doing for a few years now,

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