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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 526

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 22 November 2016

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Here's a happily married couple. He digs exhibitionism, which she indulged after taking a deep breath. She wants to try BDSM, but he isn't having it. Is it her right to demand it, and what's his god damn problem? A married woman likes to be fashionable and step out looking GOOD. But guess what! Her husband, wishes she would wear jeans and a grubby tee so all the men will stop looking at her.  Dan wants to help her pick out a smart outfit for divorce court. On the Magnum, make way for the robots! Google's (human- we assume) head of machine intelligence, Blaise Agüera y Arcas, talks about the inevitable arrival of sex robots, along with the ethical challenges we'll all face. Hello Westworld! And,  a woman with a boyfriend of one year, wonders if he'll present her with a ring during their upcoming trip to Paris. Oh! Oh, how she hopes he will! 206-302-2064 The Savage Lovecast is sponsored by Headspace, the guided meditation app that will help you focus and reduce stress. Learn more at headspace.com/savage This episode of the Lovecast is brought to you by Winc- the wine club that helps you to choose wine that suits your taste and ships it right to your door. For $20 off your first order, and complimentary shipping, go to TryWinc.com/savage. Today’s episode is also brought to you by . the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to .com/savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:23.6

I was planning to open this week's show talking about a Broadway musical, but probably not the one you think.

0:29.6

I was going to talk about assassins, the 1990s Stephen Sondheim musical about the men and women who have assassinated,

0:35.6

or attempted to assassinate American presidents.

0:39.7

Nothing should be read into this. I have listened to and enjoyed assassins under Democratic and

0:44.4

Republican administrations alike because it's a great show. And like I said last week,

0:49.4

it's important that we make time even now for art and music and pleasure and joy. And for me, listening to

0:56.4

musicals as opposed to say watching the news right now is a necessary act of self-care.

1:03.6

Okay, so yeah, assassins. It's all about these crazy and mostly white people who feel dispossessed

1:09.5

and marginalized, the losers, the suckers, the ones who

1:12.5

might have been. And some of the crazy, mostly white people in the show are deranged racists.

1:18.2

And they strike back at society by killing the president. And it kind of felt bankshot relevant to

1:23.9

this political moment because mostly white suckers and deranged racists have struck

1:28.2

back by electing a president. And so I wanted to open today's show by playing a little bit of

1:33.2

another national anthem, one of Assassin's best songs.

1:37.2

There's another national anthem playing not the one you cheer at the ballpark.

1:52.5

Where's my prize?

1:55.1

It's the other national anthem saying if you want it here, it says it says never it says sorry now that clear it says

2:05.7

listen by the end of that song the other national anthem is playing in the ballpark and it almost

2:12.2

works as metaphor like I said for this political moment but you not quite. Because what Donald Trump is singing,

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