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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 496

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 26 April 2016

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

It's the sex toy extravaganza! After receiving a preternaturally high number of questions about sex toys, we decided to bring in a crack team of experts from women-centered, sex-positive stores across the US and Canada. What actually fits in a cock ring?  How do you keep a dildo clean? What's the best restraint to start out with? Do sex toys carry emotional baggage? All these questions and more are answered for you. And additionally, on the Magnum, a man out on parole wonders when and how to tell the story of his crime. 206-302-2064 Thanks to the folks at She Bop, Babeland, Come As You Are and Womens Ware.   Today’s episode is also brought to you by the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 2 meals free by going to .com/savage. This episode is also brought to you by Club W- the wine club that helps you to choose wine that suits your taste and ships it right to your door. For 50% off your first order, go to ClubW.com/savage.  This episode is also brought to you by Harrys.com.  Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Dan" when you check out.

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.4

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

well, there's nothing you can't ask on Savage Lovecast.

0:24.9

Do this job long enough, write a sex advice column, host a sex advice podcast, and you begin to notice something.

0:31.8

There's this pattern where occasionally, every once in a while, you'll get a whole bunch of questions about one thing.

0:39.1

And they come in waves.

0:40.9

Like suddenly you were getting no questions about cuckolding for a while, and then you get

0:44.6

bunches about cuckolding.

0:46.5

And you'll get no questions about how to set up that first three-way or how to navigate

0:51.1

that first three-way or what went wrong with that first three-way.

0:53.8

And then suddenly you're just awash in those questions.

0:56.5

It's like there's something in the water or the air or the zeitgeist.

1:00.7

And I wonder if people in other helping professions have the same issue or have noticed the same pattern that somebody who's a shrink and they're shrinking.

1:08.3

They're shrinking people who need shrinking.

1:09.5

And then all of a sudden,

1:16.1

they have all these new clients who basically have questions about the same topic. Well,

1:21.8

we have witnessed another big wave here at the Savage Lovecast. Over the last few weeks, we got tons of questions about sex toys. So we decided to gather up some representatives and educators from our favorite,

1:30.5

progressive, feminist, women-owned or employee-owned sex toy shops across North America and have a

1:37.9

conversation with them and share your questions with them and really take all of your

1:41.8

sex toy questions. We're just, we're coming in big, fat waves to the experts. So on today's Savage Lovecast, the entire micro edition of the Savage

1:51.6

Lovecast is dedicated to your sex toy questions, to this wave of sex toy questions. We cover everything

1:58.7

from dildos to cock rings to restraints to disposal,

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