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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 424

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2014

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

A bi man from a conservative Christian family had been through conversion therapy twice as a child. Strangely enough, it didn't work. He's all grown up now and coming out for real. How can he maintain a decent relationship with his "family?" A high school teacher and his entire class is horrified to see a female student masturbating in class. How can he teach her the timeless lesson that wanking in pubic is more trouble than it's worth? On the Magnum, Dan speaks with a researcher on the science of teen sexting. (Spoiler: Teens be horny.)  And, a gay man is attracted to transmen. Where can he find them?  And so much more.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought to you by Audible. Download a free audiobook of your choice today at

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.5

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:15.9

while there's nothing you can't pass on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.4

Shortly after I moved to Seattle many, many years ago, 25-ish years ago, I was walking to meet some friends at a bar through kind of a sort of derelict, sort of strange part of town crossing over a freeway when I noticed this person was following me.

0:40.1

And my gut instinct was you're about to get robbed and you should run. And I didn't want to,

0:47.2

I don't know, I didn't want to make the person who I thought might be following me feel like I thought

0:51.1

they might be following me so I didn't run. And then that person

0:54.3

caught up to me, pulled a knife on me and demanded my wallet and my jacket. I had a leather jacket

0:59.3

at the time that I liked to wear that I got in Berlin that had tremendous sentimental value for me.

1:04.4

Got in West Berlin when I moved there a few years before that. And I took off running then. And the

1:10.6

person with a knife chased me and didn't overtake me.

1:13.6

At one point, they stumbled and dropped their knife.

1:15.6

And I made it into a bar, made it into the bar that I was running to.

1:19.1

So they didn't cut my throat and take my jacket and my wallet.

1:23.6

And I had a regret.

1:25.1

I regretted that that moment where I noticed this person following me that I didn't take off running then, that I didn't react then.

1:32.2

I didn't cross-as.

1:32.9

I didn't do anything.

1:33.8

You know, it was just to inhibit it.

1:36.0

And I didn't trust my gut.

1:37.0

And I regretted that.

1:38.3

There was another time where I was a teenager wandering through a warren of underground tunnels in Chicago.

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