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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 423

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 2 December 2014

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

A woman dating a water-sports enthusiast is having a hard time, just "letting go." A straight man is horrified by misogynistic, abusive porn. Why is it popular? How can he avoid it?  In another instance of straight male bewilderment, a man in his 50s doesn't "get" bondage. How can he find a woman who isn't interested in 50 Shades of anything?  On the Magnum, Dan spars with family therapist Damon L Jacobs on the PREP controversy.  And a sad tale of yet another rape at a fraternity, with a victim who didn't report it.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage12 for a 10% discount and free web domain registration. This episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This podcast is also brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.1

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:23.6

If you have to pray to God, if you have to ask God if you're an asshole, that's something

0:30.4

that you need to fall to your knees and do.

0:33.2

Dear God, am I an asshole?

0:34.7

You don't actually need to bother God with that question.

0:37.2

You indeed are an asshole. If that is something that you are going to pray about, if you're going to pray on, am I an asshole? You don't actually need to bother God with that question. You indeed are an asshole.

0:38.6

If that is something that you are going to pray about.

0:40.4

If you're going to pray on, am I an asshole?

0:42.8

We can all cut to the chase.

0:43.8

You are an asshole.

0:45.3

Elizabeth Loudon until I think today or yesterday was a staffer for a GOP Congress critter.

0:52.6

And last week after Barack Obama pardoned a couple of turkeys, that inane, ridiculous

0:57.7

White House goofball photo op ritual, after he pardoned those turkeys with his teenage daughters

1:03.2

at his side looking bored.

1:06.6

Who wouldn't be bored by the whole country's bored by this.

1:10.1

Imagine being dragged to this thing.

1:12.1

But like teenagers looking a bit bored and not impressed at the parting of the turkeys.

1:16.5

Elizabeth Lauten wrote this Facebook post that isn't very long that I will read in whole.

1:21.6

Dear Sasha and Malia, I get you're both in those awful teen years, but you're part of the first family.

1:26.8

Try showing a little

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