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So New Year's Eve, 1994, I think, or 1993, maybe.

This guy I'd been seeing, dating, we'd been hanging out.

It was okay.

The sex was okay. He was really cute, but kind of just okay in the personality department and the brain

pan department.

And we went out and I really did kind of like him and I thought, you know, maybe there's

something there.

I'm going to keep seeing him.

We'd been going out for like three or four months, five months. We go out on New Year's Eve. And we go out to this bar where I am hosting something at this bar, some New Year's Eve, little thing in my job. And I'm in drag, which is something I used to be caught in every once in a while. And we're in this bar and I'm with my boyfriend of three or four months.

And we, you know, we're having fun.

We're getting drunk and hanging out.

And there's some other things floating around the room besides alcohol.

And we are having that as well.

And like halfway through the party, you know, halfway through the night, it's New Year's Eve.

I give him a kiss.

And then somehow we get separated in the crowd and then I don't know where he went.

And I'm not actually, I realize that, you know, my New Year's Eve date has gone awall and I'm kind of not that upset.

And that's not a good indication for the future happiness, strength, longevity of a relationship.

If your New Year's Eve date disappears on New Year's Eve and you're not at all distraught,

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