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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 368

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 12 November 2013

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

An erotic masseuse has serviced an estimated 5000 dicks, over the course of 23 years, to support her family. Now what?  A gay man engaged to his boyfriend of 7 years tumbled into bed with a woman after getting drunk. His specific question for Dan is "What am I DOING?!" On the Magnum Lovecast this week, Dan chats with Daniel Bergner on foot fetishes and the shame surrounding kinks.  Also, Dan works his magic on a woman whose family fears she is possessed by a lesbian demon.  And a lot more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage11 for a 10% discount and free web domain registration. Tweet your Squarespace URL to http://player.podtrac.com/rules-savage-love. This episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage".

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.3

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the savage love cast.

0:24.8

This is going to be a very special extreme jet lag, the savage love cast.

0:31.5

I've just gotten back from Australia.

0:33.9

We're had an amazing time.

0:35.3

I was there for six days to appear and speak at the Festival of Dangerous Ideas in Sydney and the Festival of Dangerous Ideas pop-up ancillary event in Melbourne. I had a terrific time. It's an amazing event. There should be something like it here in the States. And some things came out of my mouth at the Festival for Dangerous Ide ideas. We were batting around dangerous fucking ideas. That was the whole point of this festival, hence the title of the festival. And something came out of mouth and I was like, oh my God, this is going to get back to the States and I'm going to get into so much trouble for this. People are going to blow the fuck up. And then I saw it on Twitter, somebody quoting me on Twitter, and I thought, oh, this is the end of me.

1:13.7

This is going to be a shitstorm.

1:16.0

I'm going home to a shitstorm.

1:18.6

And here's what I said that I thought would kick off the shitstorm, but did not.

1:22.4

This is not the shitstorm that I have come home to in the wake of the Festival of Dangerous Ideas.

1:26.5

I said that, as somebody misquoted or only partially quoted me on the Twitter, that I think we should give kitty porn to pedophiles.

1:36.8

Turr-ter-rah.

1:38.0

I thought this would be all over the right-wing Christian blogs.

1:41.4

Dan Savage wants to hand pedophilesiles kitty porn. I qualified that statement.

1:46.1

I unpacked it on the panel that I was on in Sydney, where not actual kitty porn showing actual

1:52.3

children being actually raped, not creating more demand for this kind of rape of children on film,

1:59.7

kitty porn, but Photoshop, drawings, animation, images.

2:03.6

What we know now about the wider availability of hardcore porn on the internet is that it has

2:08.8

correlated very strongly, perhaps causally, with a decrease in sexual assault and rape.

2:15.1

There's a terrific article at Scientific American called The Sunny Side of Smuts,

2:19.0

and I quote, some experts believe the consumption of pornography may actually reduce the desire

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