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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 358

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Society & Culture

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 3 September 2013

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

A man (with a British accent that had the tech-savvy, at-risk youth  panting like hound dogs at noon,) likes to cat around town, despite his ostensibly monogamous relationship. (Even the way he says "monogamous" is swoon-worthy.) Can or should he change for his girlfriend?  Dan speaks with the venerable Dr. Chu about the rare phenomenon of HIV positive men who have undetectable viral loads.  A woman knows a man who is being tossed out of his college for sexual assault. Is she obliged to testify against him?  On the big, ole Magnum version, Dan and porn actress, director and producer Joanna Angel, talk about the porn industry, and what they do to keep their actors safe from STIs.  An unfortunate man is married to a woman who a) won't let him watch porn, b) won't let him masturbate and c) won't fuck him. Guess what Dan's advice is.  Do you get boners from the strangest things? We want to hear about it.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by ExtremeRestraints.com. Go buy something, and be sure to enter GGG2013 at checkout.

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.5

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the savage love cast.

0:24.9

Hater's going to hate, right?

0:26.6

There's actually science now to back that up.

0:28.5

A article published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, quoting from a piece

0:34.5

here on So Late, corroborates the hip- hop and internet truism that you just can't win

0:39.4

with some people. The paper goes on to explain that people who hold negative views are more likely

0:44.2

to react negatively to new stimuli because haters are going to hate. And that's not news.

0:48.8

Like there's a lot of hate sloshing around out there in the world. Some of it directed at me.

0:53.6

The other day I was dinking around on Instagram and I landed on a post where there in the world. Some of it directed at me. The other day I was

0:54.3

dinking around on Instagram and I landed on a post where somebody in the comment threads

0:58.2

on a picture on Instagram accused me of attempted murder. That's new. I hadn't been accused

1:03.4

of attempted murder before. To all the people that in my sleep I've attempted to murder,

1:07.4

I apologize. But what else? Hater's going hate. And hate it's going to make shit up.

1:12.4

I try not to get too bogged down by it.

1:14.7

But last week, a hater that I'm unfamiliar with hated on me so hard and so bizarrely and so

1:21.5

revealingly that I do want to wallow in the hate for a moment.

1:25.8

Stan Solomon is a Tea Party activist and radio talk show host and internet talk show and blogger and a political activist who got actually fired from a political campaign that he was running in Indiana after his tweets surfaced.

1:41.4

I love it when people say someone's tweets surfaced as if tweets aren't public in the first place. You're not putting them out there in the world for mass consumption. A tweet isn't a diary you keep under your bed with a little lock and a little pink key. A tweet is something you're floating out in the world because you want people to know what the hell you think. Anyway, some of his tweets surfaced. They were really insanely anti-Semitic and homophobic. And so he got fired. And you know it takes a lot of hate. You know, haters are going to hate. Nobody hates like tea partiers hate. And it takes a lot of hate to get fired for hate from a tea party campaign. I got to say. Not that I want to hate on the tea partiers here, but, you know, I think the only appropriate hate hate is to hate

2:18.6

haters. I do hate haters and a lot of haters in two parties. Anyway, I don't want to bog down

2:21.8

on that. But Stan Solomon, hate humped my leg on his show. And I'm just going to play this clip here

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