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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 356

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Society & Culture

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 August 2013

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

"Cum Dumpster." Is this a sweet, sexy term, or just plain nasty?  A straight woman in Texas feels like a nelly gay man trapped in a woman's body. How can she find her people?  A woman has been using OK Cupid for 2 years and still hasn't gotten any action. So Dan chats with OK Cupid co-founder Christian Rudder on what she might be doing wrong.  On the Magnum version, Dan interviews sex researcher Dr. Joye Swan on risk-taking and using the idea of monogamy as a magical shield. And more.  Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout. This episode is also brought to you by Shoplube.com. Save 10% on Boy Butter, when you enter promo code: Stainless.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

well, there's nothing you can't ask on Savage Lovecast.

0:24.4

I've been away for three weeks.

0:25.8

I was on this thing that we call a vacation.

0:28.8

A lot of American workers don't have those anymore, and I recognize that I'm lucky to have them,

0:33.0

particularly three-week long ones, and I'm very grateful for them.

0:36.2

But when I go on vacation, we still like

0:38.2

the new podcast to come out every week. So we bank some shows and I record shows in advance. So I haven't

0:42.8

been able to talk about current events at the top of any of the last three weeks of shows because

0:47.4

the shows weren't current because we recorded them in advance, as I said. So I wasn't able to talk

0:53.2

about Russia and all the horrible things going on in Russia,

0:55.8

the persecution of the LGBT community there.

0:58.6

We talked about it before once or twice on the podcast,

1:01.1

but everything's going to come to a head right before I left for vacation.

1:04.5

Harvey Firestein wrote this brilliant op-ed in the New York Times calling out Putin and the Russian government

1:10.1

and demanding that the world start

1:11.5

to pay attention.

1:12.7

Activists in Queer Nation in New York and San Francisco and me and another guy here in Seattle

1:17.6

all called for a boycott of Russian vodka.

1:20.4

Learn more about the Russian vodka boycott at dump Russian vodka.com.

1:25.5

And I suppose I could talk about that.

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