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Most people will tell you that all open and or monogamous relationships are doomed to failure because all the couples, every single couple that they've known who were in an open

relationship, even couples that had just one three way, just once, all those couples, they all wind

up getting divorced or breaking up.

But here's the thing.

Almost everyone knows at least one couple in a successful open and or monogamous relationship,

but they don't know they know them. Because most couples in successful open and or monogamous relationship, but they don't know they know them.

Because most couples in successful open and or monogamous relationships, particularly the

straight ones, they're not out about the fact that their relationships are open and or monogamous.

People typically find out that a couple was open and or monogamish and or having the occasional

three way if and when that couple divorces or breaks up. if a couple in an open and or monogamous relationship doesn't

divorce or break up, if the openness in fact contributes to the stability of their marriage,

makes them happier in their marriage. No one never finds out they're in an open marriage

or an open relationship or a monogamous relationship.

So yeah, people know couples in successful open relationships. They just don't know they

know them because those couples are not out. And that couple, if you're sitting there and

you don't know any couples in successful open and or monogamous relationships, if you tell

yourself you don't know any, that couple could be your parents or could be your

pastor.

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