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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 342

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2013

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

This week on the Savage Lovecast: Tales of open relationships gone horribly wrong. Is it so wrong to move in with your boyfriend to save on rent? Also, is it against the rules of matrimony to not serve cake at a wedding?  Plus  on the Magnum show, Dan speaks with sexual health educator Debby Herbenick about lube and ladies and Vibrator Addiction Syndrome. Also Dan drags his older brother on to talk about how they tormented each other as children. And a lot more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by  They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage5 for a 10% discount and free web domain registration. This podcast is also brought to you by . Go buy something, and be sure to enter GGG2013 at checkout.

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0:00.0

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0:03.5

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0:10.7

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0:20.2

while there's nothing you can't last on the savage podcast

0:26.8

As we are recording this week's show, as we're recording Tuesday's podcast, they are voting in Minnesota right now in the Minnesota state senate senate on marriage equality bill, which already passed the House. And the governor of Minnesota said he will sign that bill if it reaches his desk. And fingers crossed and I don't want to jinx it. And I'm too Catholic to say it's in the bag. But it looks like it very well could maybe possibly be in the bag until I said in the bag and then jinxed it

0:54.5

and it didn't happen. But no, it looks like it's going to happen. And they are voting right now

0:57.9

as we speak as we record this show on Monday, the day before the show was released. I wish we

1:04.5

knew the results as we spoke, but we don't. But it looks good. The pace of change right now on

1:09.6

marriage equality is staggering. Rhode

1:12.2

Island and Delaware both got marriage equality in the last couple of weeks. Minnesota,

1:17.0

if marriage equality comes to Minnesota this week, will be the 12th state to achieve marriage

1:21.5

equality in the United States. And the third, since the Supreme Court heard oral arguments

1:26.1

on the Defense of Marriage Act, the Federal

1:28.1

Defense of Marriage Act, and California's Proposition 8. The pace of change is staggering and

1:34.0

heartening and thrilling. So little is going right, right? This is going very right. And it is

1:42.2

a little flabbergasting. I remember saying to someone not too long ago that I didn't expect to see marriage

1:48.3

equality in the United States in my lifetime.

1:51.2

I found it in an op-ed I wrote for New York Times that I was looking up to find something

1:54.5

else and there it was.

1:55.3

Me saying not too long ago that this would not happen in my lifetime and it is happening

1:59.1

in my lifetime.

2:02.5

And what is driving this? What is making this happen? The very thing that the original gay lesbian by trans,

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