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I think teenage girls should have access to quote unquote sex toys.

I've written about this in the column where someone will write in and say that their daughter was using a vibrating toothbrush or some janky-ass piece of shit in the house that buzzes a little bit as a vibrator or using something from the fruit and veg drawer as a penetration toy as a dildo. And they wanted to know what to do about it. And my answer is always, buy your

daughter a fucking sex toy. I mean, when you think about it, young men, boys who want to experiment

with penetration toys, what penetration might feel like with their own penises, only have to make a fist.

Whereas young girls, who aren't encouraged to masturbate, have to make do. They can't just make a fist and get it in their to masturbate have to make do.

They can't just make a fist and get it in their vagina.

They have to find something that they can experiment with and it's healthy and good for young

people to experiment.

Young women also with sex toys, it can really decrease anxiety around that first sexual

encounter if it's also not the very first time

you've had something in you. Lord knows that the first time a boy gets to partnered intercourse.

It's not the first time he's had his dick in something. He's had his dick in his right hand or his left

hand or howlid out watermelon. For years he's been doing this. He is comfortable with

penetration kind of sort of what it might feel like.

He's not nervous about penetration and what that might feel like because he's been doing it.

And I think that girls should do it.

But you know what? When I tell people that maybe they should buy teenage girls, minors weren't

allowed to shop at Babeland in New York in Seattle or a smitten kitten in Minnesota or come as you are in Toronto. Please support Come as You Are. They're having kind of a crisis. It's good to have your local independent sex positive sex toy store in your community. And if you're listening in Toronto, please get down to come as you are and buy a couple of dildos or vibrators or sex toys or paddles or whatever. Anyway, it's good to have those things.

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