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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 307

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 11 September 2012

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

When you're an 18 year-old homo living in the South, and your mother is a conservative Christian pastor, how on earth do you come out?  Oooooh, how tantalizing! A famous comedian is maybe cheating on his wife based on dubious hearsay!  We all  know that gays should come out as soon as it's safe for them to do so.  But what about folks in open relationships? Does mom need to know about partner #2?  Oh, and if you were planning on sending Dan a carton of smokes for Christmas, you might want to rethink that.   206-201-2720  This podcast is brought to you by . Go buy something and be sure to enter GGGSeptember at checkout.   This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at

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0:00.0

You're listening to a Stranger podcast, www.thesanger.com.

0:06.0

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.0

while there's nothing you can't pass on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.6

I'm going to play a clip just to start the show from Michelle Obama's speech to the Democratic National Convention last week.

0:31.6

If farmers and blacksmiths could win independence from an empire. If immigrants could leave behind everything

0:41.2

they knew for a better life on our shores, if women could be dragged to jail for seeking the vote,

0:47.8

if a generation could defeat a depression and define greatness for all time, if a young

0:53.3

preacher could lift us to the

0:55.2

mountaintop with his righteous dream and if proud Americans can be who they are and boldly stand

1:02.8

at the altar with who they love, that surely, surely we can give everyone in this country a fair chance at that great American dream.

1:20.1

I just want to pause here to emphasize what a big fucking deal that was, to use a Joe Bidenism,

1:27.5

not just that, you know, for years really since the 80s, 88, but big fucking deal that was, to use a Joe Bidenism.

1:32.9

Not just that, you know, for years, really since the 80s, 88, gays have gotten name checked in speeches at Democratic National Conventions, which usually meant slipping the word

1:36.7

gay into a long list of, you know, democratic constituencies.

1:42.4

But we've never been mentioned like this as a part of the, you know, in the

1:46.8

rousing section of the speech, this big American dream sort of fireworks going off, rabble-rousing

1:53.7

thing. And the struggle for gay and lesbian equality equated to the founding fathers and

1:59.5

their revolution against the British, the immigration experience, women's struggle for the vote, the African American civil rights movement, Martin Luther King, and then we come right there at the end, right before the invocation of the American dream and the place goes crazy. That is so significant. That tells you everything you need to know about the difference

2:18.8

between the two parties right now. I know there are a lot of right-wing dumb fuck homos out there who are

2:24.6

trying to confuse gay and lesbian voters. Oh, hey, we had a cocktail party at the Republican

2:28.6

National Convention and 600 people came. That means the GOP is on your side. Please don't read our

2:33.9

platform, which calls for

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