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Hey, this is Dan Savage, and you've successfully downloaded the Savage Love podcast,

the once-a-week, out-loud version of my sex advice column, Savage Love.

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Let's get to the recorded questions.

Hello, Dan.

I just want to start off by saying I'm a huge fan of both your written column and your podcast version of it,

even though with my shitty dial-up internet connection, it takes me nearly 30 minutes to stream an entire podcast.

I still always do.

I recently, I just, a day or two ago, actually, I lost my virginity to a very, very kind woman.

And I had, I could not come.

I had no trouble getting aroused. I had no trouble getting aroused.

I had no trouble staying aroused until, you know, towards the very end.

But my question doesn't pertain to that.

See, I was thrusting missionary kind of style.

Her laying on her back, on the bed, me on top of her, for anywhere

between at least 30, maybe even an hour, 30 minutes to an hour, it could have even been

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