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Okay, so my girlfriend and I approached a couple that we are close with about some group sex.

Well, actually, I approached the husband, and he was receptive, and he talked to his life about it,

and he said she

was curious and receptive as well. We made plans to maybe go to a strip club together and have

a few drinks and go back to their place and see what transpired. We had all gone to a strip

got together before when my girlfriend competed in amateur night and I was very proud of her.

The husband and I discussed terms and came up with seeing if the girls would play with each other,

and then we would have respective mates, but all in the same room, no swapping or anything.

Well, it's been about six months since I've approached this awkward subject,

and none of us have mentioned since.

I've never grown and I've talked about it,, and none of us have mentioned since.

I'm a girlfriend, and I've talked about it, but, you know, not with the other couple.

I've talked to the husband once a place about before I was going to a strip club, but our schedules just haven't allowed it.

So my question is, is if I bring it up again, or my girlfriend and I just forget it?

First of all, congrats to the girlfriend on that.

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