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Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

S8E2: All My Skinfolk Ain’t Kinfolk

Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

Cultivating H.E.R. Space

Education, Self-improvement

4.71.3K Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2020

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Can Black people be racist? NO! However, Black people can be agents of white supremacy and anti-Black. Due to how we have been socialized chances are there are times when we may experience internalized racism. Throughout our socialization there have been systems in place to move us closer to whiteness and as a result, shunning people who do not align with white supremacist heterosexist classist patriarchal ideologies. While some of us have found ways to break free from some of these ideologies, others have doubled down in fully aligning with whiteness. Today, Dr. Dom and Terri discuss those who may look like us but are not for us.
Quote of the Day:
"Souls that inhabit white bodies can be allies and accomplices in the fight against oppression, in the same way that black folks can be agents and accomplices in promoting, promulgating and protecting white supremacy. As my grandmother once said, conjuring Zora Neale Hurston, “All your skin folk ain’t your kinfolk.” Meaning that you can inhabit a black body and be an agent of white supremacy."
- Professor Lawrence Ware
Questions that need answers:

What do we do about skinfolk that ain’t our kinfolk?

How do the real Black people unite?

What does it mean to be Black?

How do we hold Black celebrities and officials accountable?


TalkBack Tuesday with Dr. Dom
Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
H.E.R Space Sanctuary
Resources:
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC
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0:59.5

But I do think that having this conversation and that a shying away from oh they black they're like me let me choose them let me vote for them I think if we don't get any other message across from this episode I think it's a call for black people to be

1:18.0

mindful that everyone that looks like us is not for us and to question people in their actions and to

1:27.8

analyze and be aware of someone's history right Like do you have a history of doing things to the detriment of black people?

1:37.6

Or have you done well for our community and you made a mistake or you did something where we're like,

1:42.8

hmm, that's questionable, let me get curious and understand what made you do

1:46.2

this, what was this for, what were your intentions, and then we can decide.

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