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Heart of Dating

S17 Ep285: Breaking Sexual Shame & Reclaiming Wholeness with Dr. Juli Slattery

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 21 January 2026

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Today we’re diving into breaking free from sexual shame as Dr. Juli Slattery joins JJ and Kait Tomlin to unpack the roots of shame, identity traps, and how to pursue true sexual wholeness and surrender in our relationships with God and others! Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating   Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true  . . . . .  Check out this week's sponsors: Cozy Earth: This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Head to cozyearth.com and use my code HEARTOFDATING for up to 20% off the best bedding sets.  . . . . .  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:33.1

Our view of sex begins with our view of God and our relationship with God. Is sexual shame in particular more powerful than shame about other sin?

0:38.5

Yeah, I would say in general, if you lied 10 years ago, you probably don't remember it.

0:43.1

If you had sex with somebody 10 years ago, you will remember it.

0:47.6

If you have sin in your past and you've confessed it and the accusations keep coming and

0:53.6

you keep dealing with that shame, then again, you're

0:56.3

believing a lie because Jesus says you don't carry that anymore. We need to strive to be

1:02.7

good confessors of sin, not good concealers of sin. I know there's people who are listening

1:08.4

who's like, you know, I probably shouldn't be doing this, but I don't feel that bad about it. You know, it's fine. It's kind of hard to fight the battle against

1:16.1

it feels good and I like it unless God is in the equation. Do you really want to be that 50 year

1:21.4

old guy or girl who has had all these hookups and is living for themselves and is lonely?

1:27.2

None of us want that.

1:39.5

Sexual shame is something that is a hot button topic, but also impacts so many of us as Christians.

1:46.9

And so today we brought in expert Dr. Julie Slattery to help us for how to break free from

1:54.7

sexual shame and really move towards sexual holdness.

1:58.1

We're in a series here on the podcast about breaking chains and breaking

2:02.7

cycles from our past as we start this new year, which is amazing. And so Dr. Julie just really

2:08.4

helps us in this tender area that can often just be so confusing, so weird to talk about,

2:15.2

and so filled with shame. And you are going to absolutely love this episode today.

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