S16E8: Healing Your Past to Feel Dateable

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2023

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

We all have a story about ourselves that explains why our love lives aren't falling into place...but are they even true? We're chatting with Ben about how his lack of dating and sexual experience has caused him to identify as undateable – and how he's letting his past get in the way of his future. We discuss why we struggle to see ourselves the way others often do, how to let go of the past so it doesn't take over your present, and ways to date in a way that brings you closer to having the love life you want. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Eui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:11.0	Hello. podcast. Hello, friends, howdy, Cheerio?
0:18.0	There are different ways to say.
0:21.0	Hello.
0:22.0	Nijow! I'm like what to say, hello. Nijow!
0:23.0	I like what to say.
0:25.0	Bringing into all the cultures listening to dateable right now, love it.
0:29.2	We are a global show.
0:31.1	We are.
0:32.1	We talk about global dating. People are dating all around the world. It's the
0:36.0	universal language of love. Don't you love when we get a message from someone? I feel like
0:40.9	what do we get? We got one recently about exit interview yes and it just it warbs my heart you know I don't know that we're having impact everywhere
0:49.2	But it also more than anything shows that we're all in it together and we're all experienced the same
0:54.9	shit no matter where we are.
0:56.7	Isn't that comforting to know that when you get ghosted in Des Moines, Iowa, there's someone else.
1:03.2	In Portugal, having the same thing happen to them.
1:06.0	Who's experiencing the same thing just in a different language?
1:11.0	Comforting or sad, I'm'm not sure but we'll go with
1:14.4	comforting. We'll go with comforting. Well this episode is comforting. I think this
1:18.8	episode will be comforting for many people. This listener reached out to us telling us that he was part of the
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