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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

#brunchtalk: How To Go From "Fine" Dates To Great Ones

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 2 April 2023

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Maybe you had a date or a series of dates that were fine. You *could* see them again but would also be perfectly OK if your paths never crossed again. But all this does is make you apathetic about dating and seeing them again. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to start having great dates, why giving people more chances can work if you change your approach to each date, and ways to make the whole process a lot more enjoyable. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Hers: Get access to medical providers for help with anxiety and depression. For more information visit forhers.com/spring Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

Hi I'm Eui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.

0:02.8

We're active daters turn dating sociologist.

0:05.4

Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.

0:09.0

Welcome to the dateable podcast. We are back for another week of brunch talk where we dive into your burning dating questions.

0:21.8

There is always something on your mind and we are here to help

0:25.2

you navigate through it all. Yes and thank you to everyone that's been leaving us

0:29.5

reviews. We've gotten a bunch lately five stars that they love brunch talk so thank you I love that one of them was labeled brunchables

0:40.0

Please keep them coming like we said give us the love tell us that you like brunch

0:44.2

talk so we keep this going we had a few people write it and say like please do not

0:48.1

get rid of brunch talk we're not getting rid of brunch talk no if anything you're gonna get more it's gonna be a brunch talk. No. If anything you're going to get more. It's going to be a brunch talk every day.

0:55.7

Let's still leave us the review.

0:58.1

Thank you to Tony, one of our community members and also one of our moderators he said self-care is

1:05.1

listening to Brunch Talk while getting a pedicure. I oh hell yeah it is

1:09.5

agree we should all be doing that I can't think of a better self-care than that.

1:14.0

We're going to get into another one of your questions that you sent in.

1:18.0

Again, thank you for sending these in. Here's a question.

1:21.0

Is it bad that all the dates I go on are just fine?

1:25.6

And for more context, the listener wrote it and said,

1:29.3

I've been going on a lot of dates lately, and it's starting to feel a bit draining because everyone I meet

1:36.1

is okay but I could go either way if I see them again. Is this normal that dates feel fine and just okay or should I be experiencing more fireworks?

1:47.3

Mmm, let me guess. You go on dates and you think I could talk to a wall I can make friends with a tree all these

1:55.8

dates are blending in together they all seem the same the funny a part about this

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