#brunchtalk: How Much Communication Should Happen Between Dates

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 9 April 2023

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

So you met someone who seems fantastic and everything has been moving along well...except that you don't talk much between dates. Should you be communicating more? Or is just setting up the next date sufficient in the early stages? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how different people operate with texting/calling/video chats, etc, ways you can up your text game to build connection, and how to bring up the fact that you'd like to talk more. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:11.0	It's that time of the week.
0:16.3	It's brunch talk.
0:17.3	Yes it is.
0:18.3	Where you get to listen to us tackle your dating questions that you've all sent in.
0:23.1	Thank you for sending those in.
0:24.4	These are such great questions that apply to so many people.
0:27.9	You're not alone.
0:28.8	You are not alone.
0:29.6	When we got this question sent to us,
0:31.9	the one for today, I had major flashbacks to my
0:34.8	dating life I feel like we should just get into it because this one is such a good
0:38.6	one the question is how much communication should you have in between dates?
0:44.0	So our listener that wrote in said that she's dating someone incredible.
0:49.0	They have amazing conversations.
0:52.0	It's not just superficial. They've been out on about six dates and they
0:56.8	see each other about once a week, every 10 days-ish, so on a pretty consistent basis. The other day though my friends asked how often are we
1:06.1	texting and calling between dates and it made me reflect that it wasn't happening too often. It was more about setting up the next date.
1:15.4	How should our communication flow between dates? Well it sounds like the friends are the
1:20.4	problem here. Making you question if things are going well.
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