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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S16E15: What Would Your Ex Say?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 24 May 2023

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Ever wonder what your ex would say if someone were to ask them about your relationship? Dates don't usually end with a satisfaction survey, yet we rate everything else in our lives, from Uber drivers to local coffee shops. We're talking about why feedback from the past can help us move forward, what inspired us to create our limited series 'Exit Interview', and what you all (our listeners!) want to learn from your exes, past dates, or situationships. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: HelloFresh: Get 16 free meals plus free shipping by going to hellofresh.com/dateable16 and use the code DATEABLE16 Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating sociologist.

0:05.6

Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.

0:09.1

Welcome to the dateable podcast. datable

0:15.0

friends, our datable family, our datable posse.

0:19.0

We're so happy to have you back for a special episode.

0:22.0

Now, every episode is is special but this one's

0:25.0

extra special because we're taking you into a behind the scenes look at our show exit interview. The full

0:31.5

season is out there for you to bend on.

0:34.0

It's in the world. We've released it. It's all there. I think this project is near and dear to us.

0:40.0

I don't know about UUA, but when I was dating I was always thinking what is going on in the minds of others?

0:47.6

What is that reason that I didn't get the text back or they didn't ask me on the second date.

0:53.1

Was it something I did?

0:54.2

Was it something going on in their lives?

0:56.2

We really have no idea with so many people that were dating.

1:00.0

What's up with them?

1:01.4

So I think this is such a unique experience and I'm so glad we're able to do it with more people because

1:06.7

when we did it with Jason, it was so eye opening and just how many misunderstandings there were.

1:13.8

And we've seen that before when we've done these social experiments,

1:16.8

even outside of exit interview,

1:18.3

like when we send people on a blind date,

1:20.1

it's like one person's perception is completely different.

1:23.1

We always are like, did you guys go on the same date?

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