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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

#brunchtalk: How do you deal with negativity on the apps?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2023

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

So you're on the dating apps and you start to encounter a ton of negativity – so much it's making you start to rethink dating at all. Do you just give up? Of course not! In this week’s brunch talk, we’re talking about how you can still persevere through it all even if it feels like dating apps are a trainwreck. We discuss how to change your mindset and way of using the apps, what the negativity we're seeing can mean for us, and ways to not let others get in the way of you finding love. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik.

0:02.8

We're active daters turn dating sociologist.

0:05.4

Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.

0:09.0

Welcome to the dateable podcast.

0:11.0

Oh hey. podcast. Oh, hey, fancy seeing you here for a brunch talk.

0:18.0

Haven't seen you in a whole week.

0:20.0

Really miss you, Julie.

0:21.0

Really miss you.

0:22.0

What a coincidence.

0:24.0

We're both here right now.

0:26.0

Did we plan this?

0:28.0

This is a date that we planned.

0:31.0

Only one brunch plays a tad. And it's called Datable.

0:34.0

Virtual.

0:35.0

It's all the metaphors.

0:37.0

The dateable brunch spot.

0:41.0

And in case you just fell into this episode. Yes, this is another episode of

0:45.0

brunch talk brought to you by the dateable podcast and we'll get right into the

0:50.3

question. The question is how do you deal with negativity on dating apps?

0:56.6

And for more context the listener wrote in and said I experienced a lot of

1:02.0

negativity on dating apps where women seem angry and don't believe

1:06.3

good men exists. This turns me off and makes me want to unmatch them, but I recognize that it's just a dating app and I don't know their full intention.

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