S16E14: From Casual to Committed

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2023

⏱️ 64 minutes

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So you're not looking for anything serious....sh*t. Whether you've been here before or you're wondering how something more casual may shift into serious relationship territory, we've got you as we chat with Jonah & Paola about how their relationship has progressed over the last year. We discuss what makes a relationship fall into the casual bucket, why our past dictates how we come into the dating pool, and ways you can explore non-monogamy while having a serious relationship. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ew H.U. And I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:18.0	Hello, we are back because we never left.
0:22.0	Another week, another time with us. What a lovely time we get to spend together as we talk about
0:24.8	dating and all the things pertaining to dating and relationships. Someone
0:29.0	asked me this past weekend, how long do you think people will be interested in dating for and I ask the
0:35.8	question back when have people not been interested in dating right now it just
0:40.4	seems like even our parents generation, my grandparents generation,
0:44.0	everybody loves talking about dating.
0:46.0	And everyone loves talking about love.
0:48.0	The larger vision of it too.
0:50.0	I feel like there's never an end. I agree, it's not just modern dating.
0:55.0	While modern dating is a beast of its own,
0:57.8	it has a lot of aspects that people find mind-boggling
1:01.1	and confusing.
1:02.3	You're right, people talked about dating, there's men are from Mars,
1:06.1	women are from Venus. Like that book is so old. How to, why men love bitches, those books the rules like that was long before modern
1:16.7	day there was clearly a market to even have those books in the first place because people
1:21.4	feel like someone cracked the code.
1:24.5	All they want to do is just follow this formula to find love.
1:28.2	But what we've discovered on this podcast is there is no one way, there's just millions of ways and you just have to find your own way
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