#brunchtalk: Should You Have A List?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2023

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

So you're dating and trying to find your person. You know what you're looking for...should you make a list? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re debating the pros and cons of having a list, what are the most important things to include if you choose to have one, and ways you can be more intentional about what you're looking for while still staying open to the package in which it shows up. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast. you. That is what we do here at Brunch Talk. They never stop. I find that every
0:25.2	brunch that I go to now ends up in some sort of dating a relationship conversation.
0:30.3	Really? Everyone. They're like, They're like,
0:33.0	especially with my guy friends.
0:35.0	Especially with my guy friends.
0:37.0	Interesting.
0:38.0	Oh yes.
0:39.0	Interesting.
0:40.0	They want all the advice they could get.
0:43.0	And then one of them, which is related to our question today,
0:45.6	I met up with one this weekend and he said,
0:48.3	I started making a list of dating tips
0:51.8	for all my friends who are new to dating. of dating
0:55.0	but later stage in life, like later 30s, early 40s.
0:59.0	Interesting.
1:00.0	So he's finding that, they're finding this helpful.
1:03.2	He made a little guidebook of how to enter dating
1:06.5	and now the list is up to like 30 something.
1:09.3	So I don't know.
1:10.6	Maybe it's working for some people.
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