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I can't be attracted to someone who doesn't want me back. That's not attractive. That's masochism

right there. That's what it is. It's this weird thing we do to ourselves. Unrequited love,

unrequited love. Like it's a romantic thing. I love it, my love it, my love it. What's the problem?

He doesn't love me back. What the fuck is wrong with you? That's not love, that's worship. And

we've become attached to this idea of unrequited love because it somehow gives us a righteous cause

to chasing someone who treats us like shit. I am ruthless with ditching people that don't give

me energy. There are seven billion people on this planet. I have zero time for flakes, for people

that don't try very hard. I know so many women who they get a guy for an hour or a week,

or they get a guy for one night a week and then they're like, I just want to see him more.

But you don't understand, we have an amazing connection. We're great together. When we're together,

it's fireworks, chemistry, we have such a great time. That's a really dangerous thing to

base investment off of. When I invest a little bit does he meet me there? Oh, I'm attracted to you.

Okay, let me invest a little. Do you invest back? Oh, you did? Okay, let me invest a little bit more.

I don't think relationships are easy, but the part where you say, I want to see you,

he says, yeah, I want to see you. That should be fucking easy. Relationships aren't always equal,

but they can't always be unequal in the same direction. He says he has no time,

but I see him doing all of these fun things. Well, guess what? That's what he's choosing to do with

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