If you have connection with no chemistry, you may not get the call.

In fact, it's possibly even likely you won't get the call.

If you have chemistry without connection, you'll still get the call.

Welcome to the Love Life podcast with me, Matthew Hussie.

Enjoy this clip we've put together for you today.

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What in your opinion are the things that you can say or do on a date to create chemistry,

so that you can actually secure a second date instead of just having a date where there was

great conversation and perhaps connection, but not the fire that makes it that gives it the momentum

to take it to that second or third date?

Well, it's well observed that there is a difference there and that's already astute to know that.

The connection is different to chemistry and some people are great talkers and they're great

at opening up and being fun and just talking all night like, hey, especially people who go to

business networking and stuff, they're like talk, talk, chat, chat, I've got loads of thoughts and

ideas and opinions, but thoughts and ideas and opinions are not what create sexual tension,

they're not what create a spark of frisson, the little magic where you feel something.

I've had this where I've gone on dates with people and they're like, that was fun or I had a nice time,

but there was never a moment. There was never a moment where I felt like, oh, that's exciting.

I'm really intrigued by it or I feel physically, physical pull towards her now.

It is often which I should be noted is not simply to do with chemistry as an even to do with

how good looking someone is. Someone you could be sitting on this it. Someone you think objectively

is really good looking or really beautiful, but there's some, there's some like if you see chemistry

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