You could not have a valuable relationship where one person sees the value in this person

and in this person's like, well, I'm not really sure.

Welcome back to the Love Life podcast, Matthew Hussey here, another mini episode today.

If you've ever noticed that you completely fall apart when you try and speak to the person

you're really attracted to, this clip is going to help.

I share three things that you need to remember if you feel intimidated by someone you like

and how to keep your confidence in this situation.

Enjoy.

Growing up, I was always intimidated by people that I perceived to be beautiful.

I would think I didn't match up, I would put them on a pedestal and around them any

sense of charisma or wit would simply fade and I would just become this blob of grey

matter trying to blend into the wall.

There was a moment recently where Coco Gough, the youngest player to have ever qualified

for Wimbledon, who's 15 years old.

In her opening match, she played her hero Venus Williams, beat Venus Williams and then

in the post-match interview was asked, how did you keep your composure?

And she said, you know, it was the biggest court I'd ever played on but I had to keep

reminding myself that the lines on the court were the same size.

Translation, it's still tennis.

I am still there to play the game, I play every single day in practice simply because it's

a bigger audience watching or it's more of a legend that I'm playing.

Doesn't change that my job is to show up and play my game.

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