God be very careful of the narrative that goes,

all of the guys I want don't want commitment with me and all of the guys I don't want are attracted to me.

Welcome everybody to the Love Live Fogcast with me Matthew Hussie Audrey Jamison is Steven also known as the James.

We're excited to be with you today we got a couple of juicy topics we're going to do both based on.

Emails that we have received from you our dear listeners one of them is about someone feeling like they aren't attracting people the way they once did.

And what to do about that because she feels like she's lost her mojo people used to be falling over themselves to commit to her and these days it doesn't seem to be happening.

So we're going to explore that why it is can it be changed how can she feel better about that situation and we also have another email from someone who has essentially asked us what to do about the fact that sometimes people do never meet anybody.

And how do we deal with that hard truth and she feels that we haven't really ever addressed that reality in all of the bloody hope we've created.

So we're going to be talking about that to very important and very real and very human topics before I go any further I want to just give you something for free that you should go and download this Steven you have spent an awful lot of time creating and it is a guide for anybody who finds themselves seeing someone right now and getting stuck in the casual phase of it all.

Which may not even be that casual anymore it might be that you're spending all the time together you feel like each other's partners but he's never actually mentioned being exclusive or he said he's not ready for commitment or he just keeps stalling in one way or another and you're giving him the girlfriend experience.

But you're not actually getting a boyfriend in the deal.

So Steven created a guide which is all about how to get out of limbo and Steve you were working on this for a long time so I want more people to experience this or the first time you read it you were like oh my god I don't have any.

I don't have anything I would even change about this is really good it's really good because it breaks down.

Like every single step of how like practically how to have this conversations to get out of that casual phase and it kind of talks about like everything down to like where you should do it how you should do it what kind of mood you should both be in what you should be avoiding.

So it really kind of dies into the psychology of why that works and exactly how you can practically do it so you can go and download that guide for free at leave limbo.com.

Send us a message when you've read it and let us know what you think a massive round of applause for Steven on that incredible free guide for people I spent longer working on that and some people spend in limbo.

But not as long as others not as long as others.

How do we feel about people who click in serve clap.

That's a generational thing. I think it I think it starts right around the the millennials turning into Gen Z. I think it's.

Do people do that in Gen Z. Is that Gen Z thing I think so.

Is it maybe it maybe I'm just aging myself but people slightly younger than me seem to do it.

We were so what you're in it you're in you're in a van you're in a van and you do that when someone.

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