(Matt Monday): He Said He Wanted You Then Pulled Away? HERE’S WHY…

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 31 October 2022

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

It’s Halloween time, and for the occasion, in today’s video I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting.

If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesn’t feel good, don’t get me wrong) you can usually assume they just weren’t feeling the chemistry . . .

But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time?

In this brand-new episode, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you should do when it happens, and the strange reason why they may choose to ghost but leave the door open. You can’t miss this topic!

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0:00.0	What have I done?
0:01.1	But I did say all of those things.
0:02.7	I can't back that up.
0:03.9	I don't know if I'm actually ready to be in a relationship with this person
0:06.8	that I've just spent a weekend with.
0:08.5	Why do men ghost?
0:12.5	Says Kelly.
0:13.5	I had a whirlwind romantic weekend with a guy where he did basically everything, but
0:36.5	he told me he loved me and he insisted that we date exclusively.
0:41.5	I've barely heard from him since.
0:44.5	I didn't come on strong at all and in fact I told him we should probably take things slowly.
0:50.5	But now he's the one who disappeared.
0:53.5	What happened here?
0:55.5	Let's deal with the best case and the worst case scenario of who this human being is
1:01.5	and why they came on so strong only to disappear.
1:05.5	And then I'm going to give you the three honest reasons why people ghost.
1:14.5	The best case scenario is that this was a person who got carried away with his feelings.
1:20.5	Happens to the best of us, doesn't it?
1:22.0	Sometimes we get carried away.
1:23.0	We sort of trip over our feelings in real time as we're experiencing them.
1:28.0	And if we're not disciplined about what we say, we could end up saying some pretty crazy things.
1:33.5	Have you ever been so attracted to someone or so into someone that if you let your mouth just run wild
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