(Rewind): If They're Sending Mixed Signals, Send THIS Text
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 9 May 2025
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room?
When you’re together, life couldn’t be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, they’re totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine.
The catch?
When you’re apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely.
As a result of these mixed signals, you’re essentially living in two completely different realities, and you’d do anything to get some clarity. You might even ask yourself: “Should I try to invest in this relationship even more to show how serious I am? Or would it be better to mirror their behavior and go cold?”
In today’s Rewind episode, I walk you through what you must absolutely NOT DO in this hot and cold scenario . . . plus I give you two very specific text messages that can (finally!) get you out of this frustrating situation.
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| 0:00.0 | The danger of playing Coolgirl is that it attracts the wrong guys. |
| 0:05.0 | It also doesn't model the kind of behaviour that would reveal the right guys. Are you in a situation with someone where when you are with them, it feels amazing. |
| 0:35.1 | You feel connected to this person. |
| 0:40.3 | You feel like they shower you with attention. They are there. |
| 0:42.3 | They're excited. |
| 0:43.3 | They can't get enough of you. |
| 0:45.3 | And then, when you're apart, you feel like you don't exist. |
| 0:50.3 | You don't get their attention. |
| 0:52.3 | They barely communicate with you. it gets very, very cold. |
| 0:59.0 | It creates a kind of crazy making scenario where you feel like you're living in two completely |
| 1:06.0 | different worlds. The one where this person is extremely into you, and then this complete other reality, |
| 1:14.1 | where it doesn't seem like this person is thinking about you at all. In this video, I'm going to |
| 1:19.6 | walk you through some classic mistakes to avoid in this scenario, and I'm going to give you two |
| 1:24.8 | very specific text messages to get you out of it. |
| 1:28.3 | Let's talk for a moment about a classic mistake that people make in this scenario, |
| 1:32.3 | and they use it as justification to keep going with this person. |
| 1:36.3 | Now the problem is, there's a big difference between attention and intention. |
| 1:41.3 | Attention is when someone is just giving us attention and looking for attention |
| 1:48.0 | when they want to experience something romantically. |
| 1:51.0 | Intention is when I have a vision for myself romantically. |
| 1:56.0 | When I actually see myself creating something, building something. And when someone goes hot and cold in this |
| 2:04.2 | way, what they're showing you is they're all about attention, but not intention. When they disappear, |
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