295: Matthew and Audrey Solo: What to Do When Someone Pulls Away, Managing Social Anxiety, and Our Quarterly Audit for 2025
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 7 May 2025
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
In this episode Matthew and Audrey sit down for a review of the last quarter of the year and dive into the hidden forces that shape our relationships with others and ourselves.
They also discuss the perfectionism that keeps us from connection, overthinking texts, and the emotional blocks that hold us back in our relationships. Plus, they answer a listener's question on whether showing interest in someone inevitably drives them away, and how to strike the balance between authenticity and attraction.
Topics include:
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Why the fear of being "too much" makes us play small in dating and friendships
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The truth about why people pull away when we show interest—and how to handle it
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How perfectionism sabotages your communication and creates disconnection
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A simple but powerful quarterly reflection exercise to reset your year
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Why overthinking texts can ironically make you seem distant or cold
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The invisible difference between "connecting" and "protecting" modes in life
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How to be more warm, proactive, and magnetic in your communication
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What it really means to “create the culture” in your relationships
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| 0:00.0 | May the 20th is an important date to put in your diary. I am holding a free live event to the world |
| 0:11.4 | called Dating Made Simple, the no-nonsense approach to finding love in 2025 without settling for less. |
| 0:20.0 | We are going to have over 10,000 people joining from all over the world. |
| 0:24.2 | I want you to be one of them. If you're struggling in dating right now, if you're finding that |
| 0:28.1 | what's on offer seems really, really depressing, if you find that people aren't willing to settle |
| 0:33.4 | down, or they're not even willing to take dating seriously and you feel like you are burning |
| 0:38.7 | out in the process of trying to find love. This event is for you. It's on May the 20th is completely free. |
| 0:45.1 | Bring your friends, bring your family. You can sign up for free at loveliftraining.com. |
| 0:57.3 | Welcome back to the Love Life podcast, everybody. |
| 1:01.9 | I am here with Audrey Hussey, my wife. |
| 1:03.6 | You will say wife. |
| 1:04.6 | Yeah. |
| 1:06.8 | A wifu. |
| 1:10.8 | We are missing Stephen Hussey, who's back in England. |
| 1:10.8 | We're missing him on the podcast and in our life. |
| 1:13.6 | Yeah. |
| 1:14.7 | Well, we look forward to having you back, Stephen, when you get back. |
| 1:17.8 | This episode is going to be great with or without Stephen because we have a couple of big |
| 1:23.1 | things to talk about. |
| 1:23.9 | Firstly, we're going to be answering a Love Life listener question, a question we've |
| 1:28.5 | really liked and we think so many of you are going to relate to. It relates to why people |
| 1:32.2 | pull away when we show interest. We are going to be talking about an exercise that both you |
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