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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind): 6 Texts That Lead to Real Dates

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2024

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”

Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.

Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around.

If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s video is a must-watch. I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation.

The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now. Be sure to let me know which one you try first in the comments!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Have a great week says, I'll talk to you next week. Have a great meeting says, we'll talk later today.

0:05.5

There's something personal about that. There's something that rewind episode, one from the archives. I think you're going to enjoy it. Let me know what you think. Send me an email afterwards,

0:38.2

podcast at Matthewhussy.com. And now onto the episode.

0:45.6

There's a particular problem people are having in dating today. It's been going on for quite

0:49.5

some time. And it's the problem of things never really going anywhere. You start talking to someone on a dating app,

0:56.5

you start texting them, but you either get no momentum with them, or it plateaus at a certain point

1:04.0

and doesn't go anywhere after that, or the momentum completely dies. Now, I know you guys like it

1:10.3

when I bring you something practical,

1:11.6

something you can use today. So I'm going to give you six specific text messages

1:17.6

that you can use or you can just take the principle behind them

1:21.6

and craft something of your own that utilizes that principle.

1:26.6

Because what this is all about is getting momentum.

1:29.3

Number one, add a human detail to your text messages.

1:34.3

It's one thing for someone to say, how's your day going? And you say, it's going well, thanks, how's yours?

1:39.3

It's another thing to say, it's going well, I'm about to go on a run.

1:43.3

That gives someone a detail,

1:44.9

something they can craft a conversation out of. Or you could go one step further and say,

1:49.6

it's going well, thanks. I'm about to go on a run. I'm dragging my little brother with me.

1:53.6

That now gives them a human detail on top of it, something that paints a more three-dimensional

1:59.4

picture of you. In a world that is 2D,

2:02.5

we have to make ourselves three-dimensional. Number two, I'm calling this principle shorten the

2:10.9

timeframe. If you're talking to someone on a Monday and they happen to be leaving the conversation

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