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Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Rethinking Attachment Styles: What Everyone Gets Wrong

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Adam Lodolce, How To Find Love, How To Find A Husband, Dating Advice, Love Strategies, Society & Culture, Relationship Advice, Why Men Pull Away, Relationships, How To Improve My Relationship

4.6645 Ratings

🗓️ 20 July 2025

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Discover a smarter approach to love by rethinking your understanding of attachment. This episode reveals why common views are flawed, explaining the crucial shift from rigid "attachment styles" to fluid "attachment tendencies." Learn how to identify your true attachment patterns and gain actionable strategies to cultivate a more secure and fulfilling love life. NEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/sessi...

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0:00.0

So there's a well-known assessment known as your attachment style.

0:05.2

And everyone, every relationship coach, dating coach, therapists, they'll talk about this.

0:10.4

And both Gary and I agree that this is a fantastic database, research-based way to understanding

0:17.2

why it is that we do what we do in relationships.

0:26.0

But one thing that Gary and I have in common is that we think that there's something about this assessment that literally everyone gets wrong and we're here to set the record straight.

0:33.0

And I think this is going to really help you, be able to understand yourself a little bit better

0:36.1

and give you a little bit more confidence when you're getting out there and finding love.

0:42.0

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high value men,

0:46.8

date with a strategy, and improve their relationships. Now, whether you're single or dating or in a

0:51.3

new relationship, we're here to help you dive into the male mind and provide

0:55.1

raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science, psychology, and our own personal experiences.

0:59.9

Your host today are myself, Adam LaDolcei, a professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies,

1:04.4

and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach

1:09.1

here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy.

1:13.6

This would be a good one, Gary.

1:15.3

Yeah, I think the, what's your attachment style is this generation's what's your sign, right?

1:22.6

Like I feel like attachment style is kind of having a moment.

1:26.7

And I blame to some extent TikTok,

1:28.9

there's a ton of attachment related content on social media, which is great. I love anything

1:35.4

that gets relationship science stuff out into the world so people can use it. Unfortunately,

1:40.2

people are using it incorrectly. That's the bad news for sure. And so what I love about what we're

1:45.4

doing today is setting the record straight. And not only setting the record straight, but I think

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