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All right, everybody, this week we are talking about breakups and why breakups can actually be a positive in life.

And if you're watching this on YouTube, it actually looks like both Gary and I are going through a breakup because we're both wearing a hoodie sweatshirts.

And we didn't, Gary, I don't know, did you, do we plan this? What do you think? You didn't. It's like I said to you right before you came on. Like, you know, I was worried I was going to be a little too informal. And I saw you show up. I'm like, look at that. We're just on the same page. I think it's like the time change

It's this time of year

It's just it's dark

I don't know

It's just think it's like the time change. It's this time of year.

It's just, it's dark. I don't know. It's just like at the midnight. It does. It does. And there's only about like being a teenager with just like walking down the streets when it's like this time of year. You just put the actual hoodie on. And I don't know. I just, I love that feeling, man. That's my style all around.

This is my go-to look and there is something about talking about breakup where you just kind of feel like you got to you got to dress down a little bit like I'm gonna like live in the darkness of my emotions about breakup and you know just really get into it um you know I don't have a pint of Ben and Jerry sitting here or anything like that,

but, you know, that could be arranged as well.

All right, lesson number one is if you're going through a breakup where you have experienced that, I think one of the worst things you can do, maybe it's just because I'm lactose intolerant

is how to pine and juries.

It does not help your situation in the least certainly doesn't help mine

i don't know does it help yours when you've gone through break i i'm officially grossed out

yeah yeah exactly like a big thing of fish food i'm like going back 10 years when i would just like

get jess would never let this go down but like i just would get a big thing of fish food and just be like, oh, my belly. Why to do that?

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