Residue From The Old
The Angry Therapist Podcast
John Kim
4.6 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 30 December 2022
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, John talks about how to love without your past and not allow your past relationships into your life and/or the new relationship you're in now.
Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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| 0:21.6 | two thousand twenty three the year you become a coach. |
| 0:27.0 | Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago, |
| 0:34.4 | and I've been documenting my journey ever since, sharing my life lessons and revelations. |
| 0:38.8 | I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose because self-help |
| 0:46.0 | doesn't have to be so complicated. Okay this is a super important lesson. Residue from the old and by old I mean previous |
| 0:55.5 | relationships slash examining the black box so I tell my clients to love |
| 1:01.8 | without your past and what I mean by that is |
| 1:06.8 | To not allow what happened and the beliefs definitions definitions, labels, and things that were created from what happened, right? |
| 1:18.0 | So not only in thoughts, but also in being, and I'll explain that into your new relationship |
| 1:25.4 | or the relationship that you're in now or the relationship that you're going to get |
| 1:28.6 | into because if you do then you are going into it loaded. |
| 1:34.2 | It's not fair to the relationship, and you're not setting yourself up for new experiences. |
| 1:38.6 | You're setting yourself for up for experiences that didn't work right you are |
| 1:48.0 | positioning yourself to have another love experience that may have been toxic or unhealthy. |
| 1:57.0 | You're not giving the relationship a clean slate and fresh soil a foundation to build something on right so what does |
| 2:08.3 | this all mean okay so one of the things that we do and I say we because I also |
| 2:12.1 | struggle with this, right? |
| 2:13.2 | I'm human, is first of all, as we compare. |
| 2:17.0 | So comparing who you're with today or the comparing the relationship to other relationships in the past right and I get it |
| 2:26.4 | there's no way we can't do this because you know we're gonna compare we compare everything |
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