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Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Resentment, Situationships, and Highly Sensitive People: December Mailbag

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Being Well

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

Dr. Rick and Forrest open up the mailbag to answer listener questions about resentment, highly sensitive people, situationships, and expanding the window of tolerance. In the first three questions, they explore how resentment shows up across different relationships, including with coworkers, family members, and romantic partners. They discuss when to speak up, when to let go, and the underrated options in between. They then talk about agency, self awareness, and the expectations of others through two questions about highly sensitive people and building tolerance for discomfort. They close with a surprise bonus question for Forrest from Dr. Rick. Key Topics:  3:51: Question 1: When should I address resentment with coworkers? 15:46: Question 2: How to deal with resentful family members? 24:26: Question 3: Is my jealousy and resentment post-situationship valid? 34:23: Question 4: What are appropriate requests as a Highly Sensitive Person? 50:30: Question 5: How can I build the capacity to embrace discomfort? 56:14: BONUS BIRTHDAY QUESTION from Dr. Rick 1:00:00: Recap Support the Podcast: We're on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Listen to Turning Points: Navigating Mental Health wherever you get your podcasts. Follow the show so you never miss an episode.  Level up your bedding with Quince. Go to Quince.com/BEINGWELL for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. If you are exploring whether you might be neurodivergent, check out Hyperfocus with Rae Jacobson.  Skylight is offering our listeners $20 off their 10 inch Skylight Frame by going to myskylight.com/BEINGWELL. Go to Zocdoc.com/BEING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to being well.

0:08.2

I'm Forrest Hansen.

0:09.2

If you're new to the podcast, thanks for joining us today.

0:11.6

And if you've listened before, welcome back.

0:14.0

I'm joined today, as usual, by clinical psychologist Rick Hansen, who is currently having a coughing

0:19.3

attack as I ask him this question. Dad, how are you doing today? I'm good. I'm feisty. Watch out. You know, maybe I mean, I've got my kind of like mellow camp counselor, green, you know, flannel shirt. I love how you like to go into the color psychology about the shirt that you're wearing often at the beginning of these episodes. It's like, oh, I'm wearing the black shirt on. Earlier today, I had a black t-shirt on, you know. Maybe I should come in with like an Oakland Raiders. Are they still in Oakland? No, they're in Las Vegas. Very sad for the people of Oakland. Yeah. But, you know. Yeah. Al Davis. Bad. Sorry bad sorry raiders fans i think it's just sons now

0:56.3

i think i think i think i think al davis is dead dad but that's okay sorry i'm no disrespect

1:00.2

r i bless his memory seriously what a what a note to be in the podcast on so today we're

1:10.1

going to be opening up the mailbag

1:11.5

and answering some questions from our listeners

1:13.8

if you would like to have a question answered

1:16.0

on a future episode of the podcast.

1:17.7

The best way to do that is by signing up for our Patreon.

1:20.7

It's patreon.com slash being well podcast.

1:23.2

And you can send an email to contact at beingwellpodcast.com.

1:26.6

So today, we mostly have some questions from people related to our recent episode on resentment.

1:32.1

We recorded that a couple months back.

1:34.0

And it got a fantastic response from people.

1:36.2

We have a lot of questions.

1:37.6

But I also snuck in a question there about highly sensitive people.

1:40.6

We should probably do a highly sensitive people episode at some point, down, just because

1:44.1

it's one of those words that people toss around a lot and there's, you know, a lot of different views about like, is this a thing? Is this not a thing? And we can kind of dig into that. I've been chewing on this question a lot. I thought it was a really interesting one. Well, since you're one of the lifetime members of the Sensitive Boys Club, along with Pueblo, you two. Yes, my boy Diego, yeah. Yeah, yeah, you could do a whole special thing about that. That would be fun. That would be a fun one. I mean, I think that one of the things with like HSP is because, and we'll get into this when we actually get into the question, is it's not a diagnosable condition. It's just a thing that people refer to themselves as.

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